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Neuro Linguistic Programming – An Insight

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As I start speaking of what NLP is, chances are you would say… Yes, I know! Or I have read about it or someone would have told you about it. The NLP scenario in India has gone through a sea change, from very few trainers in 2010 to thousands of them now, it is good news as well as bad. Because there is so much noise that sometimes it is not easy to know what it is.…

So, what is NLP, really? Is it a set of those techniques you see on so many YouTube channels, is it a manipulative technique that some NLP baiters speak of and some people even go on to call it pseudo-science…What is it???

Let me illustrate by giving you a simple example, and I suggest you work with me on this. Imagine, you are walking on the street and suddenly you hear some commotion, you look in the direction and find people are indicating towards a big white thing (animal) rushing in your direction. Your mind goes in a frenzy and tells you it is a bull, no, it is a raging bull… what would be your response? Run, right?

Let us go behind the scenes and figure out how this response that might have saved your life happened. The first part of experience involved your sensory system, ears, eyes, and a whole lot of neural network that carries information back and forth to your brain (Neuro), Second part was your brain (mind) processing this information to comprehend the situation and interpret it using words (Raging Bull), it’s quite possible that you might have heard some words being spoken by the crowd itself like Run, Bull, etc. (Linguistics, we include non-verbal also in it) and finally, your response (unconscious in this case) to run and save yourself (Programming). Would your response be different if you were a trained bullfighter?

Now, we understand that NLP is Neuro-Linguistic Programming, or in simple words, it is a science that involves the study of your sensory experiences, your comprehension of the situation, and how you are programmed to respond (behave). The interesting part is that the three components we spoke of interact and influence each other, so the information moves both ways. Imagine, the way you are programmed will influence your sensory experience as well. No wonder you come across many people who would refuse to see some aspect of reality while for you it is right there for anyone (willing) to see.

There are thousands of ways to define and explain what NLP is, I have used one that I find simple to understand and another reason I promote this view is that it gives us an insight into what NLP could be used for. The example I gave is an extreme one, but, if you were to look at yourself or any other person and his/ her behavior, you will be able to understand it better using NLP.
Not only you can understand it better, but you can also influence and change the behavior, no wonder NLP is called Manipulative.

Classic NLP was initially developed as a therapeutic technique, the initial models were about therapies, and even participants used to be people from the domain of psychology, but over the period all of that has changed.

With time people realized its applicability in day-to-day life, in business coaching, sports coaching and you are bound to find it wherever you see, I have personally trained psychologists, teachers, trainers, sports personnel and coaches, business leaders, students, homemakers, Marketeers, professor of advertising, motivational speaker and even politicians… Today if you carefully observe any famous speaker, you will be able to identify many NLP language patterns as they speak. I am not saying that they all consciously use NLP, what I am saying is by learning NLP one could do all that as NLP is also called a meta-model for success.

I generally avoid jargon(s) in my programs, but, let me explain “Modelling” as it is a critical component of NLP and its structure. All of NLP is made of “Models”, you can visualize a model as a description of what contributes to making something work. If there is a great dancer, knowing how that person can perform is like creating a model of that person. Models, once created can be used for learning and teaching and that’s how most of the techniques in NLP have come by. People involved with NLP create models of people who succeed by carefully studying their behavior and thinking and cleaning out idiosyncrasies that do not affect the outcome. These are simplified codes for success and can enable learners to achieve their goals.

You may also look at NLP as a communication model, it is very efficient and as it is all about communication, you could use NLP wherever you need to communicate with others or even with yourself, this is precisely how I have been able to get results.

This article is a simple insight into what NLP is, I run programs ranging from one day to fifteen days on topics varying from core NLP concepts to parenting and leadership. That will possibly give you an idea about the potential of NLP and its usage.

It is like one’s curiosity to learn about water, it is everywhere, it is used by everyone and one could experience it. Yet one may spend a lifetime learning about its various states, properties, and usage.

From the article originally written for LifeWithin.in by Sushil Mehrotra

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What is NLP?

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NLP stands for Neuro Linguistic Programming that covers the three dominant components responsible for modifying human sensory experience through a brief understanding of neuro(the mind), language and human programming.

Since the advent of human civilization, we have discovered and learned numerous languages from phonetics to full-fledged scripts, but seldomly tried to understand the language of the mind.

NLP studies how directives to the mind modify behaviour patterns, habits and thought processes. It serves as a user manual for the mind. Once you know how to operate the mind & become a master of the language; any and everything is achievable.

NLP talks about the conscious and unconscious mind as one. The conscious mind observes and analyzes the outside world while the unconscious mind processes the data to form ideas and beliefs.

To be honest, NLP is all about making life simpler. It is not a concept out of a book but something worth experiencing.

Raghunath Tripathi

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Here at WisdomTree Solutions, our only mission is to empower everyone; help them in identifying their real potential and break the shackles of unresourcefulness, insecurity, stress and other mental blocks. We provide the NLP training in Delhi, Mumbai, Pune, Goa and various other cities in India.

In addition to our core NLP certification programs, we have some popular corporate training courses such as NLP for Personal Transformation, Leadership program, Supercharging business sales through NLP, Metaphorically Speaking, etc.

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Winning over addictions effortlessly through NLP techniques

Winning over addictions effortlessly through NLP techniques

Why do certain people fall in the trap of drug abuse and easily get addicted to drugs developing various anxiety disorders. If you look around the world you live, every personal has different sets of vulnerabilities. You need to press the right button and the person will panic in no times.

Everyone has some kind of addiction, drug is just a mere extension of it. Why are we becoming so vulnerable these days and instead of working on it, sway our way towards drugs. Insecurity, fear, loneliness and stress are the primary reason behind the drug abuse.

In many cases, people fell into drug abuse due to rejection or failure in long term interests. There are various factors responsible for mental vulnerabilities across the globe:-

Genetic vulnerability- Genetics play a major role in person personality. You inherit various qualities from your parents and this is the reason why some people easily get addicted, whereas some don’t.

Culture and social norms- “Birds of same feather flock together”. You will never find an alcoholic sharing positive camaraderie with highly successful influential personality. Company plays a big role in forming any habit, therefore it is advisable to choose the right company for better state of health and life.

Loneliness- The end goal for every human is happiness, but it is momentary and to sustain happiness we try every trick and formula possible within our mind. In many cases introvert guys find hard to maintain human contacts and eventually become lonely. This is also a big reason.

Easy availability- These drugs are easily available, may be not openly, but you know how to get it.

I can assure you, if you really want to win over drug addictions “Yes you can, yes you will”. NLP (Neuro Linguistic Program) techniques have done tremendous work in getting rid from addictions. It helps in finding your inner self, understanding the real reason behind the addiction and how to gel with the society in a positive way and changing the society in a drastic way. NLP empowers you to get rid of your vulnerabilities and change the social norms for better social and economical living. There are various personalities, who through NLP have got rid of addictions and completely transformed the society.

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How to quit smoking with NLP

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NLP has been instrumental in breaking the old behavior pattern and achieve peaceful state of mind and robust health. The swish pattern is highly acclaimed NLP technique used by the NLP practitioners  certification across the globe with commendable success ratio.

It has done wonders in case of addictions, unwarranted behavior and habits. People have got rid of major addiction like smoking and drugs through swish technique. Is smoking taking toll on your lungs affecting the personal and professional life?

Do you want to quit smoking within a month? Yes, you can. Here is how to do it.

First step is to let your addiction instinct take over. For instance, the NLP practitioner tells the client to light the cigarette and ask him “How do you feel”. Now here is an actual trick, usually clients say they feel relaxed. The picture is clear, cigarette is a stress buster for him.

When he inhales few puffs of cigarette, certain hormones are released in the body and imagination takes over. You have to delete the old imagination and replace it with more superior imagination.

Then the practitioner asks the client about any strong picture or imagination, which empowers him with immense will power and mental strength. For instance, in one case the client revealed his love for his wife and visualizes her as the life engine.

I asked him to light the cigarette and visualize you lying on the hospital bed and wife crying beside you cursing for the smoking habit. I told him to visualize the same image before lighting up the cigarette.

The client normally complains that both the image occurs at the same time. So, I ask him the view both the images in grid view and swipe the old image. This is called the swish technique. After few minutes, I asked the client to visualize both the images and he could no longer hold the old image. We tried this technique for 20 days and he was able to quit the smoking habit completely.

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Neutralizing Pain and pleasure through NLP

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Electron, proton and neutron and how maintain the balance

Our life pendulum oscillates between the yin and yang energy, the pain and pleasure factor. Either you are in pain, trying your heart out to run away or barricading it. If you experience the pleasure, there is no stopping, we will seek unlimited attempt to experience it more and more.

Why is it so? Human runs on emotions, we always aspire to feel some tingling sensation giving adrenaline rush. Human is nothing more than a flesh and bone machine without emotion. It is the essence of life. Pain and pleasure are the consequence of emotional survival. To survive, we need various variations of emotions. Emotions are actually designed to activate unlimited enjoyment receptors in the mind.

Human body is pre programmed for evolvement and pleasure. Pain is a different form of pleasure, there is no need to press the skip button.

Why do we hate pain and easily get addicted to pleasure

Pain is a sensory stimulation displaying the warning signal of shattered self esteem and damage. Hate is actually a defense mechanism installed within us to protect us from all unpleasant circumstances. Without pain, pleasure has no existence.  The problem is we easily get addicted to pleasure. You want to maintain the tempo, but pleasure is endless and speed less.

Smoking, drug abuse and over eating are primary examples of addiction. You know it is injurious to health, but you have lost control over the craving.

Decision taking ability is based on pain/ pleasure theory

Almost 95% of our decisions are derived from pain and pleasure theory. We either accept or reject, this is the core of any decision. The success lies in neutralizing both pain and pleasure. NLP has been instrumental in maintaining the cordial balance and aligning the electron, proton and neutron in the body.

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How to Get Rich – Attract Money Tips Using the Subconscious Mind

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Sometimes I believe what is the purpose of life? Sorry, no spiritual drama or attaining salvation. Ultimate goal is happiness, peace and prosperity. If you are detached person and believe in the principle of simple living and high thinking, the blog is not drafted for you.

If you want to enjoy happiness through matter, this blog is specially drafted to unlock the tips to get rich through the subconscious mind. Money is the quintessential tool to live life to the fullest. The problem is people consider money as the goal.

Now the universal question wobbling in every person mind is how to get rich? There is a famous phenomenon “money attracts money”. To attract money, you have to be money, behave like money, and flow like money. Sounds little confusing, you have to change your mind set about money.

You have to feel like a wealthy guy, always thinking various ways to attract wealth in the mind. Here is a reminder, it should be clear why do want to be rich. Once “Why “clear, the mind automatically will pave the way for “What” and “How”. Your actions will manifest money in real life. This is not just a theory, but an experience felt by thousands across the globe.

Is job a stable solution?

Job is a solution, but job is not the most valuable thing in life. It is only a source of earning money making your life purposeful. The money is to find your inner self and attain ultimate happiness.

Train your subconscious mind through inspirational friends

You would notice that there is always a platoon of trustful and inspirational friend behind every successful person. They always push you hard towards your goals and ambitions.

Environment

If you are just a mediocre person, look around the environment nearby. If you are stuck in real terrible environment between poor and greedy people, you will never become rich. Aware yourself and choose the balanced environment matching your money magnet.

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NLP: What Goal to Set?

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NLP Training includes the successive factor to fix the goal. You need to dwell upon that how to set the goal and get it without any loss of time. For initiating any workflow, there is the need to be an affirmative thought and ideas. It can get either from your past experience or references.  Always be enthusiastic about an outcome, explore the drawback and take ahead for improvement. Learn positively from your wisdom and follies, and realize your goal in the stepwise action. Before targeting your ambition, a powerful feeling is essential and then you need to apply your logic, stepwise and actively. It is no doubt that, interest has a wide range of our feeling and action which can be derived on the basis of the motivational power.

You can get benefited from the NLP Training, to feel and realise the key factors of the power motivation which is realistic to adopt interest. Our interest varies in several aspects from consciousness to unconsciousness on the basis of motivation factor as like

i). Environment:

A positive environment is an inseparable part of interest in creativity. It is fruitful for a successful career, accomplishing any project and increasing your network in your work area.

ii). Affirmative Behavioural Nature:

It can get on the basis of our positive attitude. You should improve it by improving your drawback factors. In fact, your goal setting abides by the acceptable behaviour. So try to avoid addiction for gaining a radical change in your life.

iii). Potentiality of Work:

There is the need of identifying the potentiality of your action in the work area. It depends on your skill and proficiency that how much you can perform better.

Conclusively, you should get preference to NLP for exploring, step by step solutions to fix and hit the target and at least realising a successful life.

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Understand the difference between boss and employee through NLP

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Did you ever dream of becoming the boss and run a highly acclaimed firm with a capacity of thousands of employees. Yes, being a boss or a leader has its own perks and numerous advantages. Now, let’s face the reality, you are a employee earning a substantial amount of money in a reputed company, but aspire to lead the team or the entire floor.

The entire office hates the boss, he is cunning, manipulative and even doesn’t credit the salary on time, but still he rules, why? There is something special about him, he is decisive, dominant and hardly cares, what people feel about him. He loves himself. He is a master of human psychology.

Who is boss?

In a nutshell, the layman definition of a leader or boss is a person with a broader vision, decision maker, knows to take the best of his employees, motivator and above all, never get influenced from outside factors.

Who is an employee?

Employee is a person, who follow the all the rules and regulations, guidelines of the office decorum.  He is the one, who tries to make everyone happy, putting his heart out for every task, but end up being the biggest loser. His tasks are defined by higher authorities. His boundaries are already defined and lack decisive powers. I know that’s harsh, but quite true.

Being an employee is good, but earning slavery in exchange of social life and personal satisfaction is a crime. Why do you want to buy stress, anxiety and tension?

NLP (Neuro Linguistic Program) clears all the fog clearly showing the boundary lines and teaching you how to stay cool, calm and composed even during the nerve jangling situations.

Release all the trapped thoughts, memories, feelings and make life fun filling and happy.

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How to Connect With Supreme Conscious Through NLP

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Every person, community and religion has its own projection on God. God is said to be omnipotent, omnipresent and omniscient. What is it, which is same in every particle of the universe? Any guesses.

It is consciousness, every living entity is same at sub atomic level, but it is consciousness, which define their visualization power, mental strength and innovative visionary powers. Conscious is supreme and can fulfill our every desire if we sync our consciousness with the supreme consciousness. Every living entity is connected through consciousness.

Consciousness is a state of ultimate awareness. Consciousness is beyond physicality, it is even above metaphysical. The concept of NLP (Neuro Linguistic Program) has understood the science behind consciousness, studying every nook and corner behind it and presenting in a much more diversified and simple way to the clients.

Consciousness sparks a thought in the mind, thought develop emotion and later emotion is transformed into feelings. Feelings are directly connected to consciousness. What we feel expands, if you feel disheartened and lost the faith, beware, and don’t curse because indirectly you are inviting much more anguish and pain. This is no made up concept, try it yourself, and constantly think about the same person every minute and sooner or later you will meet the other person.

May be on the street or he might call you or like your post on social media platform. Don’t go by words, try it, it happens. NLP training guides you to travel your thoughts and belief along with the consciousness and unearth all the trapped thoughts, stale beliefs and old value system. The only thing permanent in life is change.

There is a famous quote from the book Alchemist “And, when you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.” Newness is the ultimate happiness, change with time.

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Developing interpersonal skills through NLP training

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Interpersonal skill is a caboodle of soft skills, life skills, communication skills and a key to open the realm of unimaginable success. You can easily impress others at the first meeting, won’t have to struggle to create engaging conversations, develop magnetic aura around you and remain cool as cucumber during crunch and tricky situations.

How does NLP training help in developing interpersonal skills?

NLP training primarily focuses on breaking all the blockages inside the mind and makes it more flexible. Once the mind is flexible, it will reflect on your body language, behavior pattern and speaking style.

Advantages of interpersonal skills:-

  • Overcome all fears, phobias and negative beliefs
  • Develop stronger bonds and quality relationships
  • Develop engaging content to meet more people
  • Steep rise in your career graph
  • Have more fun and compassion in life

Enhance your confidence and listening skills through NLP training

Being comfortable at talking to various kind of people doesn’t come naturally to everyone. Some are born with inherited skills, while some have to really work to sharpen those skills.

In a conversation, if the first is talking, then other person has to be a good listener. NLP training helps you in developing listening skills. People love to talk about themselves, therefore, it is important to prompt right questions and listen to them attentively.

Letting other person speak develops mutual faith and trust. It is also a sign of sheer confidence. Confidence attracts other people and extremely in turning awkward situation to your favor.

Interpersonal skill is equally important in your personal as well as professional life. You will insert much more valuable thoughts before expressing it to others. With experience you will gather some real tricks of the trade to please other person and convince.

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Rediscover Your Inner Self Through NLP Training

Rediscover your inner self through NLP training

Who are we? A human, son, father, brother, sister, teacher, engineer or a citizen, the list goes on and on. Is our identity defined by external people and relations, profession or we are someone else. Ultimately we realize, body is our identity, but the fact is we actually live inside the body.

We are an eternal soul with bliss, satisfaction and unlimited happiness, but with the flow of time, parents, relatives and society reframe the mental setup and feed belief, value system and importance of materialistic wealth. We are taught that oneness can be achieved through other partner, group of people or connecting with the entire world.

We forget to love yourself and are told to love others unconditionally without any expectations. This is the beginning of the downfall and we end up being the emotional fool. The fact is we always love ourself, but feel unlimited or not whole without others. NLP training guides us through various methodologies and techniques to counter the problem.

It starts from the very fact, we always love yourself, whether we believe it or not, hardly matters. This is the elementary fact. All our desires lies inside the root chakra of the body in sleep mode and NLP unlock the trapped thoughts and hidden desires responsible for stress, anxiety and mental tension. These desires help in rediscovering our innerself and riding on the horse of exotic passion and interest.

Once we know the reason behind our existence and sublime suffering, we become fond of our own company and realize the real happiness lies within self. We don’t need others to make us happy, loved or special. We already are, life is a journey, don’t question and enjoy the odyssey. NLP training can unlock the door of self realization by teaching you how to love yourself.

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Importance of NLP & Leadership Training

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In the last decade with the increase in job responsibilities, hectic schedule and unsatisfactory salary packages and incentives have left the employee with frustration, stress, low self esteem and soaring anxiety.

A normal perception is that corporate sectors and other multinational companies are profit generating firm and has zero interest in employee empowerment, growth and personal ambitions. Jokingly they are the uncrowned slaves with paid wages.

Now, a simple problem has transformed in a terrible havoc directly affecting the growth rate and profit margin of the companies. Once a philosopher said “If you are seeking out for big opportunity, seek out for bigger problem”

The slump has propelled the corporate sector to understand the emotional and psychological needs of the employees and resolve the concerns to boost their productivity and mental health. This brought a shift in paradigm in the companies and has given rise leadership training Mumbai.

What is leadership training?

Leadership training is about making the other person realize its true potential, core strengths and weakness and empowering those skills to enhance their productivity in the office. The training program is about enhancing the self awareness program and guiding the candidate to develop new critical skills for higher esteem, recognition and higher productivity.

During the training program, it explains how you view yourself internally, finding the paradoxes creating conflicts and releasing all the hidden trapped desires, negative emotions from the sub conscious mind leaving the mind blank.

Once the mind reaches the alpha state, the trainer dispenses motivation and assigns new tasks and goals and encapsulates the feeling of team work.  And at last it lays huge emphasis on meditation techniques to relax the candidate, optimize the concentration power and good, sound quality sleep to rejuvenate the mind, body and soul.

In a nutshell, it primarily amplify your belief, behavior pattern, hidden capabilities and prowess and help you in being the difference thus creating difference.

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Success is an Altered State

Success is an altered state

What is success? Success is a state of mind, when you feel accomplished after hard fought battle to fulfill the desired goals. It is within us and doesn’t reside in materialistic entities. Everyone has its own perception on success. You might be successful in your close circle, but other colleague platoon nearby consider your achievements as bogus.

So it varies person to person. Have you ever noticed that during dreams we do impossible tasks, touch unexplored level of creativity and the interesting fact is that we never fail while during dreaming. Later when we wake up, the reality is complete vice versa.

We witness harsh life, nerve jangling situations beyond expectations and uncontrollable. We find our self getting grilled in cut throat competition and crave for success. So many efforts, but still success is denied.  It is crystal clear that success doesn’t lie in awaken state, it is an altered state. If you ask a successful golf player that how did he survive in such competition and always emerge as victorious with flying colors.

He would say that he lives in altered state. A Runner will always that he runs as if he is trapped in tunnel and is running for his life. He doesn’t look at his competitors and follow his gut feeling. A golf player will not play his shot unless the hole widens giving a clear indication for the birdie.

So if you want success to stay with you during lifetime. Don’t find it outside, tilt your eyes inside you and form and imagine a stance, where you are doing impossible tasks without any restrictions and complete liberation. Hypnotism has provided unlimited wisdom and freedom to people across the world.

Hypnosis and time based techniques is extremely helpful in releasing all the hurtful memories and emotions taking your brain into vacuum state. Hypnosis training is actually a trance state, where practitioner asks you to imagine various situations and resolve the real time issue in course of imagination. The biggest truth is life is that the entire material world is a manifestation of mind power.

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How to Resonate for Inspiration

How to resonate for inspiration

Inspiration is being mentally inclined to do something creative and extraordinary out of ordinary situations. It is an ultimate magnet to attract the success from the universe. Inspiration is the only difference between an average person and a highly successful person.

The cerebral cortex or the cerebrum is the main region of brain responsible for inspiration, intuition and immense creativity. NLP (Neuro Linguistic Program) is an undefined branch of science primarily designed to understand functionalities of different parts of brain and lead human life towards peace, prosperity and progress.

So, today we will discuss how to resonate for inspiration by invoking emotional intelligence, but before how comes into play, you got to understand why? Inspiration is helpful in secreting endorphins in the body responsible for high pain bearing capacity in return of reward. It is a reward hormone.

Although NLP practitioners are expert at dealing with unfulfilled desires and painful memories and brings out the objects, which have always inspired you throughout your life?  Once a legend said, whenever you are going to take any big initiative or life changing action. Always give importance to the inner voice.

Drifting away from metaphor, it signifies giving importance to the unconscious brain. Unconscious maintains an equilibrium state between the emotions and logic binding them together forming inspiration. Always go by your gut feeling without getting trapped in duality. It is a clear indication of enhanced emotional intelligence and using it your benefit.

Inspiration is the essence of life and what better the life could be, if you understand the functioning on mind and using it in your favor. Once you are nervous, the amygdale, fear portion of brain turns on shutting the complete immunity.

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Balance your Flooded Emotions Through NLP Emotional Intelligence Program

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Are you over emotional, face mood swings problem and incapability to focus for long hours? Often your performance in the office is overlooked by your unpredictable volatile behavior. Petty issues and rash humor disturbs you immensely affecting the composure and decision making ability.

It is a matter of lack of emotional intelligence. You might be blessed with strong logic, result oriented perception and sound judgment capability, but would always find understanding own and other people emotions hard, primarily responsible for motivation and exalted performance.

So you have tried almost everything, spend endless on search engines finding various techniques to fix flooded emotions. Well, I am here to tell that you haven’t tried all. NLP emotional intelligence training course is your one stop tool to maintain equilibrium between emotional intelligence and intelligent quotient.

Ways to improve emotional intelligence via NLP

Self awareness- You must be aware about your emotions and feelings occurring at various situations. Maintain a journal and write down your reaction over different situations. Spend some time alone to find out the reason behind your response. It can do wonders.

Self management- It is about being aware about your emotions and channelizing them towards the hidden talent and passion. Remember emotion= energy in motion and energy can neither be created nor destroyed. It can only change its form.

Social awareness- Do you feel other people take undue advantage of you. Play with your emotions and leave you all alone during bad times? It is a clear indication that you lack social awareness. Never let your guard down and assess other person behavior, habits and emotional intelligence before starting some emotional transaction.

Relationship management-

Maintaining a harmonious relationship with a person for a long duration is not everyone’s cup of tea. We should never cross the lines and enter other person personal space and invest only required time in relationships.