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Living On Purpose, Find Your Purpose and Create an Extraordinary Life

Everyone should make out the purpose of the living of a meaningful life. It is no doubt that, without the living on purpose; we are nothing except a fish out of the water. Hence there is the need of proper guideline to creating an extraordinary life and a perfect life coaching is essential for consuming an extraordinary life. Everybody expects the radical change in the life; the proverb is exactly fit on the living on purpose as “Rome was not built in a day”. Actually, it is not so easy to implement the creativity in your life; this is so because of the lack of an acceptable behavior. So please be a focus, feel energy and be passionate about living a happy life.

For consuming the key factors of an extraordinary life, you should follow a proper guideline of a perfect life coaching, which includes the following success factors as like:

i) Be clear about your dream:

You should be a focus on the lucid picture for making a decision about your prosperity. So never be confused about what you really wanted to become in your life. Due to an absence of passion towards your dream, you will feel tireless and the chances of being a winner will befog of the inferiority complexion. Remember, you should deserve your work with a true dedication. It is said that a winner always creates opportunity while on the other hand a loser always escapes the opportunity. I mean to indicate that in spite of the hard labour, due to lack of a feeling as a winner, will efface your ambition. You can get failure also due to the arrogant behaviour, so always try to avoid the negative factors to achieve your goals in your future.

ii). Be stick to the point of action:

For doing anything positively, believe on which you are acting for continuously. This is so because due to lack of it your whole action may be worthless. In addition to it, you should summarise your passion with your painstaking effort. You should not be a miser in taking the reference to a successful person because it can motivate you on behalf of your inner strength. It is said that”action is louder than voice”. So always stick to your points of the goal.

iii) Be continuous towards your target:

It matters on gaining the goals in your life, that what is the extent of your deeds. There should not be a gap between your deeds and dedication. Always go ahead with something new and try to avoid your mistake but you should learn a lesson from your mistakes altogether. This is so because you can get experience from your mistakes in the past and hence past maintains records of your wisdom and follies regarding your ambition. However, you should maintain the continuity in spite of failures and never forget that failures are the pillars of your success.

In the concluding line, I would like to say that, you should be ambitious and ignore the ambiguity because it will blur your passion, dedication towards your deeds and at least your dream. Hence a perfect guideline of life coaching is mandatory to save the ambitions.

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Why do You Need a Life Coach?

Media is the strongest medium forming an indirect relationship between us and the entire world. We fall in love with an actress appearing on a daily soap, or get our self aware various paparazzi and juicy fashion, or how eminent personalities are changing the world through their vision and versatility.

When you see their candid interview, you realize another person, who is working tirelessly to make their life systematic, productive and organized. He is called Life coach. Now a day’s almost every celebrity, corporate giant and socialite have hired a life coach.

The reason behind their hiring was mismanaged life, hectic lifestyle, poor socialism, depression, anxiety and other mental issues may be caused due to failed relationships, job or business, and the reasons are endless. The depression has spread like malice in the society too, as everyone is on the radar of depression. Why is the urban life so stressed?

May be life coaching has a solution to it. Life coaching is an unofficial, non credited relationship between the life coach and the client. The idea behind the coaching is to unlock the complete human potential of the client. The job of the life coach is to address the personal and professional needs of the client and motivate him to fulfill all desires through the suitable and compelling approach.

An expert life coach knows how to help the client in finding the right goal and motivate him to achieve those goals with flying colors.

Here are primary reasons why do we need a life coach:-

  • To main cordial balance between the personal and professional life
  • To set and achieve new goals
  • Learn how to build quality relationships
  • How to get disciplined and self organized
  • How to stay motivated all the time
  • Develop time management skills
  • How to eliminate stress, anxiety and uncalled tension
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Set Goals not Expectations

It has been more than two decades, since I have stepped in the profession of Life coaching and have discovered amazing yet amusing fact about life. The life revolves around creation, preservation and destruction. Anything created will have its life span and eventually will decay or decease.

The only thing permanent in the world is change, the universal truth of life. Life is about setting various goals, fighting for it and at last savoring the success. Setting the goal is the ultimate boon of life, but expectations is a non peril curse, we have to live with.

People consider goal and expectations as same, but both are yin and yang poles of life. Let’s explore the difference between the goal and expectations. Expectation is an exerted pressure applied that burdens the mind to compete causing stress, tension, anxiety and panic disorder.

While, goal is like fuel emission control always giving goose bumps and motivating you to work towards them freely and to the fullest potential. Fear of failure gives birth to expectations. The mind always seeks for the positive outcome, but life is equilibrium state between positive and negative. The emotional experiences faced with expectations are always negative, creating doubt, lack of self belief and disappointment.

Goal on the other side generates motivation, pride and inspiration to work harder even after multiple failures. Yes failure disappoints a person with a clear vision and goal, but strengthens the determination to rectify the mistakes and fight back. There is a popular proverb “Try and try again and you will succeed at last”.

Goals driving force is achieving the excellence, which expectation driving fuel is outcome. Outcome is never in our hands, therefore, sometimes you will succeed and sometimes will have to smell the barren soil.

Therefore, as being a professional in the field of Life coaching India, lay huge emphasis on setting a broad goal with commitment, determination and immense confidence.

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How You can be the Best Life Coach

What is life? It is the existence of our entity and continuously handling all the positive and negative emotions under different circumstances. Life is a series of unwanted challenges. The core behind any feeling, emotion is performance. It is a final result and defines our mettle over the subject earning us fame, money and success. Life is everything

An average or below par performance can affect our professional life tilting the mental pressure towards the personal life too. Still, there some enthusiastic professional around, who understand the science behind performance and conspire against the universe to help people in giving their best shot in every sphere of life. We call them “Life Coach”.

So this, by now it is evident that the blog is about understanding the ways to reach the pinnacle of life coaching.

Role of Life coach

  • A concise understanding about the human behavior, skills, beliefs, moral values, attitudes and characteristics
  • Develop the precious art of listening to other people and gathering the required data from the person
  • Using wide range of advanced techniques and coaching tools to improve the performance
  • Understanding the personal and professional hurdles faced and defining innovative ways to minimize if not possible to completely overcome it.

A coach must understand his inner self

Generating the emotional connection and getting to understand other person emotions, vision and personal goals.

Explaining the importance of emotional management and using them to our comfort and advantage.

Finding the primary reasons behind stress, anxiety and emotional imbalance

Using the power of visualization, making the other person comfortable and realizing him the benefit of self talk

Relationship management and the principles of achieving success

Developing the necessary points for self belief and transforming the mental energy into physical.

If the Life coach has all the above mentioned qualities in him, success might just be round the corner.

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Playing the Right Tune to Balance Work and Life

As a professional, our entire day is divided in two quarters. The day belongs to office and the night to personal life. This is a thumb rule followed by modern professional as it give abundant time to recharge the batteries and giving optimum performance in various domains.

The problem arises, when lust, greed and insecurity misbalance our life cycle. In the modern world, employment is about instant performance and not excellence. Other person is always ready to replace your designation and at less salary package. What happens next? It develops the feeling of insecurity.

The fear of insecurity propels you to compensate those extra hours in the office leaving you exhausted, directly affecting the personal life too. Those extra hours might earn you promotion, a salary hike, but what is the benefit, if you have no time to enjoy your earned money and achievements.

So here are few sure shot ways taught during our life coaching training program to maintain cordial balance between the work and the life:-

Spend some time without social media and E-mails

Social media was integrated in our life to make world a small place and bring every loved one closer, but what happened is complete vice versa. Every thirty second we receive some message constantly keeping us engage in virtual life.

The managers, CEO or even team leaders use social media to connect with team members and can assign any new task anywhere and anytime. So basically, you are always on duty. So use the platform according to your comfort, instead of being the puppet.

Don’t be a pleasure entity

We often try to impress other person and reside in their good books. You want to prove yourself as a dedicated, hardworking person in the eyes of others and needs their approval. This gives the other person the power to enjoy a great deal of pleasure. They feel like the smartest person and start taking you for granted.

Never ask for other approval, believe in your skills and understand your boundary.

Life is about balancing every aspect, some indulge into self realization and some constantly battle with stress. Don’t worry, join the life coach training program to conquer your emotional states, enhanced sensory alertness and lead a happy life.

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How to Cure Social Anxiety Through NLP Life Coaching

Do you find yourself uncomfortable in busy places or confronting your thoughts in the public? You suffer from social anxiety and the good part is you know the simple fact. There are three types of humans on this earth

  • Introvert
  • Extrovert
  • Ambivert

Social anxiety is actually not a concern for people with platonic job, but if you are in a media field, public relations or into telesales social anxiety is a big problem. It can put a full stop to your glorious career and affecting your personal life too.

You might find yourself dizzy expressing the emotions to other person considering the fact that other person might dismiss your thought, feeling or idea. Fear of failure is evident in the people with social anxiety phobia.

People with less experience surpass you in professional life. Your skill set might be enormous, but communication skill is exalted in social life. So are you fed up, lack of ideas have completely deported you to isolation. Mate you suffer from social anxiety.

How to fix social anxiety

Fear of evaluation is the main cause behind social anxiety. You are constantly under scrutiny, people analyze your moves, thoughts and actions, which kind of impact you negatively.

Anticipate and challenge the anxiety- You must analyze the fear pattern and the flow. Understand a simple fact that everyone has its own skill set and weakness, no one is perfect and you are no different. Wisdom Tree Solutions has introduced a simple yet extremely effective NLP Life Coaching technique calling it “Expose it”.

Completely expose yourself, irrespective of all odds, pros and cons. Go flaunt your personality with any fear of failure. Face your fear. It is like someone has thrown you inside a swimming pool and you are man with no swimming skills. At first it would look like a dead end, but after few days of practice , it becomes fun. Same is the case with social anxiety, simple face it. Don’t make every act so complicated.

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NLP Mind Hack- How to Take Control of Your Life

Life is mysterious, most of the time we feel helpless as situations are out of control. Something out of the box happens every time leaving us clueless. We have no control over our body and mind. The life is buffering at **** gigabytes per second with auto play on. So the reality is we can’t stop or re start our life, but can take control of our life just like a pilot flying the plane.

NLP life coaching training program is specially designed to conquer your emotional states, changing the unwanted behavior as well the core cause behind others behavior and decision making ability. We are the creators of our 90% problems. So how to reach the admin panel of life and change the default settings to customized.

The core problem is uncertainties and our non- flexible attitude. Anguish and pain is felt when life doesn’t move according to our plans.  I will give not one, two, but three ways to take control of your thoughts, desires and goals.


The first way and the most effective way is acceptance. Learn to accept your strengths and weakness. Irrespective of your physical appearance, financial background, skills and reputation, you are unique and the best version of yourself. Learn to forgive your mistakes and appreciate your efforts. Fall in love with yourself.

Know how to invoke right emotion at right time

Emotions are the most beautiful thing on the planet making feel loved and adored binding us as a family and in much wider lenses as a civilization. Emotions= Energy in motion. Once the emotions are conquered, you can trigger right emotion matching the situation to enhance the productivity and bring out the desired output.

Change in attitude

A change in perception is a sign of broad vision. Every problem has multiple solutions and sometimes problem is a gateway to solution. All you need is an eye to identify the solution.

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Explore New Love Relationships Through Life Coaching

As a life coach I have come across various cases broken and completely shattered with no real ambition in life. The interesting point is their awareness about what is right and what is wrong, but still out of sheer lust and obsession they can’t put a halt to their misery. Obsession and lust is nothing, but amplified unfulfilled desires. Love is the main reason behind all sorrows. We crave for love and dissolve all emotions and feelings in a love potion just to compel other person to love us. Love is an essence of life.

Once a philosopher said “Love is friendship”, so instead of finding love develop camaraderie with people. If you want to keep a one arm distance with depression, anxiety, insecurity and other phobias, explore new love relationships.

Take some time out for vacations

Lie down on your couch and choose various destinations for vacation. Get in touch with your old gang and make some interesting plans just like Phil, Alan and Stu did in Hangover, which proved to be a roller coaster trip of a lifetime. Take some days off and have a blast. A brief encounter with new person during holidays usually ends up in a lifetime friendship.

I have seen so many couples, who met on a trip, started to enjoy each other company and ended up falling deeply in love. Sometimes, it’s worth taking a risk to ignite romantic relationships.


Carpool is a new eco friendly way to start a new relationship. May companies offer carpool services and is a picture perfect platform to start a new conversation and develop the bond of friendship. Make sure you don’t become too clingy. Try to find out common interests.

Find out new interesting friends on social media

Try to find out your old friends and get in touch with them. Find out new interesting friends, who share common interest. Connect with them and start a friendly conversation.  Try to transform your online friend into real time by meeting at coffee shop or other hangout places.

From my perspective, Human is a social animal always seeking for love, compassion and relationships. There is no harm in finding happiness.

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Celebrities who gave new life to their drowning career by hiring Life coach

Celebrities enjoy the status of amazons, adored and loved by everyone. They define status quo, persona and unimaginable success through sheer skill and a high degree of godly talent. Their each act is a teaching, surely a superior race separating them for other human beings.

We are made to feel inferior and a big credit goes to audio visual mediums. The actual and harsh reality is they are insecure entities with a limited shelf life and are eager to any extent to restore their fame. They too experience fear, face failures and can have issues with health, money and social relationships.

They are humans too. Most of the celebrities across the world took the help of NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) training to make truce with their inner demons and restore peace.

So here a list of top three celebrities, whose career rose to fame after a constant debacle like a phoenix rising from the ashes

Oprah Winfrey

Oprah Winfrey

Oprah Winfrey a famous talk show host, actress and a philanthropist, often considered a synonym of feminist power, too smelled the barren land of failures and went into depression, but broke the depression shackles and came out with flying colors. She gave all the credit to his life coach and advised all his fans to use a life coach as a measure of success.

Leonardo DiCaprio


Leonardo DiCaprio, a well known actor known for his roles in various Hollywood blockbuster movies has faced failures in relationships and has even marginally felt short for winning Oscars. He accredited his gigantic success to his life coach Tony Robbins helping him in eradicating all the roadblocks.

Serena Williams


Serena Williams is considered the greatest female Tennis player ever to play the sport. In the early part of millennium, she was constantly suffering from fatal