Compromise is often seen as a sign of weakness and finally surrendering to the person or situation for survival and avoid loss. When we are in a state of defeat and doesn’t want to witness our ego getting crushed, we compromise to generate a win win situation.
Till the time we are single, either as a sole proprietor or bachelor, freedom prevails. No rules, no boundaries, no expectation from others and we live life king size. The problem is human is a social animal and can’t live alone. He needs a partner for emotional connection, copulation and stability in life.
Two means duality, both of them have their own desires, expectations from each other and different goals in life. And when two of them are not on the same page, it causes resistance, stress, anxiety and anger. If both of them remains rigid and doesn’t compromise on various aspects, relationship ends.
These are not mere words, but the essence of life. Compromise is not an option, but a necessity in life. Now here are few time proven tricks and techniques to bring compromise in quality relationships:-
Expression of desires- You must be vocal with your partner, express your desires, what you want to achieve in life and discuss the matter. It clears the panaroma , clearing the state of anxiety and confusion. Now both you know, happiness is about sharing and enjoying eachother success.
Be selfless- Loving unconditionally is the key to every successful relationships, aceepting the other person as it is and nurturing the other person as a child grows the relationship. Always give what you want to receive from other person.
Be engaging- Human is bound to fight, but the phase is temporary. Instead of avoiding your partner in difficult times, engage with your partner , communicate and experience the fun of being in a relationship.
We at Wisdom Tree Solutions during our NLP training in Pune, Mumbai, Bangalore and other parts of India explaining the importance of compromise in a relationship. Compromise doesn’t mean compromising on esteem and self respect, but mutual understanding.