Our Emotional Intelligence subsists the extent of our positive thoughts, feeling, and imagination. In fact, when we feel good then we imagine better and at least realize the best. So never forget the fact that, our emotional Intelligence is the root source of powerful feeling. It sets the genuine and the shortest path to short out any problematic facts. It can be possible on account of an open-minded behavior, which provides dynamism to the brain and maximizes the capacity of quick decision making.
You should try to be clear, bright but not confused. Never try to dwell on your negative thoughts and be open-minded as like a window through which you can do all your possible efforts to solve your problem. You can only be capable to manage yourself on the basis of intellectual integrity on the inside, which brings confidence on the outside for an extrovert behaviour. Use your problems as a stepping stone but not as a campground.
You can improve yourself as an open-minded personality by applying intellectuality in real life. As like try your level best and select a progressive pattern to complete your task instantly. It will bring happiness instead of anxiety and you will feel fearlessness but not pressure to take steps to the next. Never feel pressure due to pending work, go onwards actively while your task is not completed. Similarly, avoid too much happiness over a little achievement. This is why, there should be no sorry for your past, no anxiety from future but only try to live in present. There is the need to improve your faults so that you can make a bright and successful career.
Conclusively, learn yourself from your wisdom and follies but no need to be too much happy or sorrow. Try your level best and be clear about any doubts by applying intellect, which will bring an open-minded personality, an opportunity and you will be a winner one day.