Wars are not won on land, there are won in mind. Making enemies is walking on the cake. Just give a stare or loud your tone mate, objective accomplished. We inherit the ferocious animal instincts from our forefathers. Negativity flows in our veins. Loving someone is climbing a steep cliff because in most cases result doesn’t fall in our favor.
Love is a not an accident, but an ancient art to restore peace and happiness. Our problem is lack of awareness about this mystic art. So let’s understand the psychology behind love. Let’s assume a situation, we see a girl/ boy and our eyes and his/ her presence leaves us spellbound. So, first step is always physical attraction.
You want to win other person heart because she is beyond your reach. The quest to win will make you flexible and open all realms of possibilities. For a single smile or blush, the others person tries tirelessly, but again coming back to the topic. After such a marathon effort, why do we still fail?
As a NLP practitioner, I have come across various cases on failed relationships and one sided love during the training program. Now here is a trick to make anyone fall in love in 20 minutes. We have a tendency to chase the person, who is hard to attract. So note down the steps:-
Never chase the girl/boy. It decreases the relationship probability
During conversation try to flaunt your passion, it leaves a long lasting impression
Choose genuine, but influencing word to praise your partner. I mean genuine, not sugar coated
Let the other person reveal his/her interests and match the common interests
Show respect to your partner and other people around
Keep yourself a bit of mystery to maintain the interest.
Don’t text him/her too often, give other person the personal space
Romantic relationship is not a rocket science, triggering right emotions and feeling is the key. Hope this is helpful.