William James said ““The greatest discovery of my generation is that human beings can alter their lives by altering their attitudes of mind”. Attitude is your perspective to look into different situations, both positive and negative. You can take failure as a misery, bad deeds cursing your fate or can take a leaf out of the situation by extracting the positive side.
It is during bad times, we discover our best version and give our best shot making impossible possible. Good times are all about fun and enjoyment, but we don’t grow as an individual. Attitude and personality are interconnected or let’s just say attitude is another facet of personality development training.
Various great inventions happened across the world giving worth to our life making it easy and meaningful, but have we learned how to operate our mind and body exploring the unlimited hidden potential behind fear, stress, anxiety and rigid behavioural pattern.
Mind is the source of all materialistic manifestation, but we use only 2% of the brain, not giving our DNA ample opportunity to evolve. Things were grim until NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) came into spotlight few decades ago.
So, let’s start with the ways to develop positive attitude and personality:-
See the world with positive attitude- The big barrier between us and our learning is ego. We form our own options and behavior, anything outside the spectrum is unacceptable to us. Once we eradicate our ego and witness things as it is, world is filled with unlimited possibilities. Be positive and take failure as a lesson.
Another important most motivational speaker’s miss is to stop complaining. Life is not a bed of roses, high are lows are prevalent. Complain attracts anarchy, unacceptability halting our growth. Remember Lotus grows out of mud and blossoms on mud water. Diamond is between coals. Never complain, when the going gets tough, the tough gets going.
Avoid negative people company
Most of the people are afraid of their relatives and friends, who are judgemental and criticise over petty issues leaving a poisonous effect on our attitude and personality. Get rid off them, otherwise their mirror neurons will affect your mentality too.