Before we discuss the ways to improve our personality, let’s unveil the science behind personality? Personality is a defined pattern of how we behave under different situation, how we feel or respond make us intriguing and unique.
When I say that X person has an appealing personality, it means the aura is attracting everyone around. He is interesting, ear soothing and plays right emotional chords during the conversation. You get mesmerized by his mere presence and try to adopt every aspect of his personality.
Human basic nature is to grab attention from others. Normally, a good personality is characterized by good looks, but recent researches have completely shattered the myth spread by the fashion industry.
It is much more dependent on how to interact with others and cuddle their behavior psychology. Looks have boundaries, you can work on them to an extent, but personality development has unlimited scope.
Here are five easy ways to improve your personality
During the NLP for Personal Transformation program at Wisdom Tree Solutions, we teach these five rudimentary ways for personality improvement to the participants.
Be an active listener- If you are an interesting listener, the world is at your feet, ask why? Everyone has something to say, the acute anxiety to express because of being suppressed. A major population is frustrated and looks for instant relief and you are the one-stop panacea for them. If you cultivate the skill of active listening, you can make other people feel important and special, winning his heart and trust.
Be an influential chatterbox
No one knows how knowledgeable you are until don’t converse with others. You are indirectly contributing to another person’s knowledge, which will make you influential in another person’s eyes. Being shy is not going to work.
Represent the witty and humorous side of yours
Everyone loves a person, who adds fun and enjoyment in their life to relieve their stress. A humorous person is capable of making the mood light even under gloomy situations. Be humorous, other person is bound to get attracted towards you.
Don’t try to be someone else, be yourself. Don’t be a replica copy of other person, be a man with an opinion. It represents the unique personality depicting you have something new to offer irrespective of others.
Develop a positive attitude
People repel negativity, no one likes a guy, who complains, give excuses and have nothing positive to say. A person with radiating positive energy lightens the mood by his sheer presence.