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Changing Preoccupied Mindset and Attention Seeking Behavior Through Nlp

Wisdom is something, which descends from heavenly abode to mind. You never know, when enlightenment struck the brain like a thunder lightening. During an NLP training in India session, one of my clients was discussing his failed romantic relationship cursing the destiny and pleading the divine to get her back.

I asked him “What qualities did you like in your loving lady”? He responded:-

  • She was caring
  • Made me felt worthy
  • Gave undivided attention
  • Unconditional love
  • A motivator

And gloomy confusion disappeared. We are never taught to appreciate our self. We are made felt terrible, disgusting, and worthless and don’t deserve respect and care. All these information are stored by the friends, family, society and the education system. I was born intelligent, but education ruined me.

So, in context to our topic, preoccupied mindset and attention seeking behavior is the core of your disturbed life. Every piece of information is stored in your subconscious mind framing the future. This develops a sense of loneliness, loss of interest and appetite, memory and even the problem of obsessive compulsive disorder.

In order to seek attention you over do things, irritating others. Your every act is defined by the desire of seeking attention. Within few days, due to irritation people start ignoring you. Here lands the role of NLP in reframing the behavior pattern, breaking old habits, modifying old belief system and eradicating all fears and phobias.

NLP training decodes the subconscious part of the brain and guides you to develop one’s own identity, don’t seek for love, you are love.  Be yourself, do what you actually like instead of impressing others. The right ones will stay with you. Insecurity is a sin. The training brings a shift in paradigm in the thought process and perspective.

NLP has been instrumental in breaking the myth of attention seeking as a necessity of life. The science behind attention is getting instant feedback, which motivates you to juggle and experiment encouraging imagination and creativity. The problem is that in between you lose your original identity. Do you suffer from attention seeking behavior, join NLP training Bangalore program.